When Should I Buy My Wedding Dress?

Finding the wedding dress is one of the most exciting parts of planning your big day. But one question every bride asks is: “When should I buy my wedding dress?” The short answer? About 9–12 months before your wedding.

This timeline gives you plenty of time for shopping, ordering, fittings, and alterations — without the stress of last-minute changes. Let’s break down why timing matters and what you should keep in mind.

Why You Should Shop Early for Your Wedding Dress

Designer Lead Times

Most bridal gowns are made to order. That means once you fall in love with your dress, it’s often crafted by the designer and shipped to the boutique — a process that can take 4–6 months or longer.

Alterations Take Time

Even once your dress arrives, you’ll need 2–3 rounds of alterations to ensure it fits like a dream. This can add another 2–3 months to your timeline.

Stress-Free Planning

Shopping early lets you enjoy the experience without pressure. You’ll have time to compare boutiques, try on multiple styles, and find accessories like veils, shoes, and jewelry.

Ideal Timeline for Buying Your Wedding Dress

• 12+ Months Before: Start browsing online, pinning inspiration, and booking appointments at bridal boutiques.

• 9–12 Months Before: Place your order to ensure enough time for production and shipping.

• 6–8 Months Before: Schedule your first fitting after your dress arrives.

• 2–3 Months Before: Attend your second fitting for adjustments.

• 1 Month Before: Final fitting and pick-up, with time for last tweaks if needed.

What If You’re Planning a Short Engagement?

Not every bride has a year to shop — and that’s okay. If your wedding is less than 6 months away:

• Look for off-the-rack dresses you can take home the same day.

• Ask boutiques about rush orders (though these may come with extra fees).

• Choose simple silhouettes that require minimal alterations.

Common Questions About Buying a Wedding Dress

What day of the week is best to shop?

Weekdays are ideal because boutiques are less busy, and you’ll get more personalized attention.

How many people should I bring?

Limit your entourage to 2–3 trusted friends or family. Too many opinions can make the decision overwhelming.

Should I buy my accessories at the same time?

It’s a good idea! Trying on veils, shoes, or belts with your gown helps you visualize the final look.

Can I lose weight after buying my dress?

Yes, but keep your timeline realistic. Share your goals with your seamstress so alterations can be timed appropriately.

Final Thoughts: The Best Time to Buy Your Wedding Dress

So, when should you buy your wedding dress? For most brides, 9–12 months before the wedding is the sweet spot. This gives you time to order, alter, and accessorize without stress.

If you’re planning a shorter engagement, don’t panic — there are plenty of stunning off-the-rack gowns and rush options available. What matters most is that you feel confident, beautiful, and completely yourself when you walk down the aisle.

💡 Planning tip: Once you’ve secured your dress, you can start scheduling your bridal portraits and coordinating with your wedding photographer — the perfect way to celebrate your gown before the big day.

I’m Lauren Taylor, a Tallahassee & North Florida wedding photographer passionate about capturing genuine, timeless moments for couples in love. From coastal celebrations to countryside vows, my approach is warm, professional, and storytelling-focused. If you’re planning your own wedding, I’d love to help document your day with images you’ll treasure for a lifetime. Let’s connect here!